It is a common misconception that just because you are using the internet, you are connected to the world even if you are in your pyjamas seated at your computer. Nothing could be more wrong! People will not come and chat with you for no reason. The fact is that you must take your own initiative to actively seek to contact those possible dates you like on these online dating websites. But remember when you are contacting others or you are being contacted by others who are interested, also requires you to use some common sense.

Trust me when I say that there are anonymous chat many idiotic and stupid things that some men are doing on the online dating websites which are doing them more harm than good. These are the guys who will eventually complain that women are ignoring them and online dating does not work. If you are one of these guys, then you must read on to find out what you are doing wrong and what mistakes you are making!

You must first understand what women are looking for on these online dating websites. Women, being women, are creatures that need to be loved and cared for. So naturally they are searching for men who know exactly how to make them feel good, secure and have great time with. They probably want a guy who is intelligent, who listens, has a great sense of humor with a positive attitude. So in order to get some responses